木已成舟便要顺其自然



愿得一人心，白首不相离



情不知所起，一往而深，怎奈何，如花美眷，终不敌，似水流年。



十禾说,给我一条路,我来教你怎么走.、



若得其情，哀矜勿喜。



我见过你最深情的面孔和最柔软的笑意.
在炎凉的世态之中.灯火一样给与我苟且的能力.边走边爱…



眉敛，月将沉，争忍不相寻？ 怨孤衾，换我心。为你心，始知相忆深。



I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
我想知道，你是否能孤独地面对你自己，在空寂的时候，你是否真正喜欢你结交的朋友。



It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
我不关心，你在哪里受到教育、你学了什么或者你同谁一起学习。
我想知道，当一切都背弃了你时，是什么在内心支撑着你。



It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
我不关心你是谁，你是如何来到这里。我想知道，你是否会同我一起站在火焰的中心，毫不退缩。



I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”
我想知道，你能否身处颓境，却依然站立在湖边对着银色的月光喊一声“真美”！



I want to know if you can see beauty even when it’s not pretty,every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.
我想知道，你是否能保持精神饱满的状态，－－即使每天的生活并不舒心，你是否能从上帝的存在中寻求自己生命的来源。



It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trust worthy.
我不关心，你告诉我的故事是否真实。我想知道，你是否能为了真实地对待自己而不怕别人失望；你是否能承受背叛的指责而不出卖自己的灵魂；我想知道，你是否能忠心耿耿从而值得信赖。



I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic,to remember the limitations of being human.
我想知道，你是否能安享快乐——我的或者你自己的，你是否能充满野性地舞蹈，让狂喜注满你的指尖和足尖，而不告诫我们要小心 、要现实、要记住人的存在的局限。